Not Funny Ha Ha Not Funny Ha Ha Leah Hayes
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...moreI'm not usually a fan of text heavy graphic novels with unev
Somehow despite the subtitle and the depiction of a row of serious and anxious women on the cover, I got it in my head that this is was a humor collection of single-page cartoons. You could hear the gears grinding in my head as I shifted directly from second to reverse to accept that it was instead an educational tract about what women should expect if they choose to undergo a medical or surgical abortion due to an unintended pregnancy.I'm not usually a fan of text heavy graphic novels with uneven hand lettering, but somehow it worked here, drawing me into the emotion and urgency of undergoing a mentally and physically difficult process. Hayes leavens the scary and depressing bits with compassion, simple advice, and a lack of judgement.
It wasn't what I expected, but I was impressed with what I got instead.
...moreThey did touch on the fact that not everyone has a supportive family, but I felt they should have gone into that a little bit further. The one character in the book wh
This book is a really good start for talking about abortion in an honest and basic way. It goes through the basics of what a medical and surgical abortion entails, what to expect, what you may be feeling, etc. It skips over all the reasons that one might have to have an abortion, saying that no matter what they are, they are valid.They did touch on the fact that not everyone has a supportive family, but I felt they should have gone into that a little bit further. The one character in the book who didn't want to tell her family had a very supportive friend, but not everyone has that either. Also, both of the women followed in the book had jobs that they could take days off with no repercussions - it wasn't mentioned at all, but they both were able to stay home and recuperate with no apparent worries about work or other responsibilities. They were both also able to easily find a clinic near them that would provide abortions, and they weren't fake clinics that would try to guilt them into not having abortions, and there weren't any picketers outside with pictures of fetuses on their signs yelling mean things. I know this book was meant to be a specific look at how abortions are carried out and the issues surrounding that, but I still felt that some things shouldn't have been left out. This book could be a great comfort for people who have decided to have an abortion, but for those who can't afford to take time off work there's no mention of how it might look to cope with the bleeding/cramping etc. at work - just one example of a situation that I feel should have been within the scope of this book. I also think it's worth mentioning that sometimes men and genderqueer people choose to have abortions as well.
Hopefully this will just be one book of many that take a compassionate look at the realities of abortion after someone has made the decision to do it, because I think this book would be very helpful to me if I ever made that choice.
...moreThe subtlety of the cover. The candid voice of the text. The artfulness of the illustrations. The clarity of the layouts. It's approachable. And engaging. And sincere.
This is a book written to demystify the process of getting an abortion. She walks us through two difference scenarios (one at a clinic, one at home), with two different women.
As someone who has never had this experience, and has personally changed my opinion a
I really love the deliberate approach given to the creation of this book.The subtlety of the cover. The candid voice of the text. The artfulness of the illustrations. The clarity of the layouts. It's approachable. And engaging. And sincere.
This is a book written to demystify the process of getting an abortion. She walks us through two difference scenarios (one at a clinic, one at home), with two different women.
As someone who has never had this experience, and has personally changed my opinion about the practice, everything rang true.
This seems ideal for any high school or middle school library or counseling office. Every Planned Parenthood and women's health clinic. Every academic library with any kind of gender studies or medical program. Every hospital. Every public library, obvs.
I'm so glad it exists.
...moreThe author offers a vision of abortion as something challenging
I appreciate the presence of this book, and that the cover is created in a way that allows people to read it in public and carry it around, even potentially order it online or buy it at a store in the presence of friends, family members etc. without being approached, attacked or shamed. While it is a very strange title, it is also a brilliant one in terms of its protective abilities. "A handbook for something hard." Wow. I am in awe.The author offers a vision of abortion as something challenging emotionally and physically, but also accessible and manageable. She chooses to represents two people getting abortions as deeply worthy of love and support. A lot of reviewers appreciate the honesty, 'matter-of-factness', and shame-free quality of the book. I do too!
Some complain because it doesn't cover a broader range of experiences or go into detail about potential logistical challenges and dangers (from anti-abortion terrorists, i.e.) but I must say, that shit gets enough media attention and sometimes it is nice to have a book which shows that people's experiences can be okay.
It's been a while since I read this book. I meant to review it a while back and didn't. So, hope I'm remembering it well-enough and very glad it exists.
...moreIt's an important book but it is not political. Hayes does not discuss funding, insurance, or Medicare. She does not suggest that access often depends on financial status or that, in some states, patients must look at ultrasounds. This book really is a "best case" scenario for an abortion patient. That isn't a bad thing, but a lot of women encounter many more roadblocks than just what they feel about the procedure. It also means that the book falls short of its promise. This isn't really a guide to something difficult because it avoids the real difficulties of obtaining an abortion if you're in a rural area, are a poor woman, or live in a state with substantial barriers to access.
The drawings are beautiful and the text is easy to read and approachable. This is a good, basic introduction to abortion in the United States. Still, I don't know that I'd recommend it as an advocacy or consciousness-raising tool. It's more of a book for women who might know a bit about abortion but who need clarification on basic terms and processes.
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Though it is a traditionally taboo topic, I, myself, have reflected on it quite a bit, and appreciate how kind, accepting, factual, empathic, real, and non-shaming this book is. There is an acceptance to the reality that The color and style of this book were initially what drew me in. I appreciated the illustrations of the people, and am a sucker for nice lettering. Once I read the back, I was stunned, intrigued, and hopeful for what this was about to share with me about the reality of abortion.
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Though it is a traditionally taboo topic, I, myself, have reflected on it quite a bit, and appreciate how kind, accepting, factual, empathic, real, and non-shaming this book is. There is an acceptance to the reality that we are all people, and regardless of the circumstance, or the 'why' there is a person behind this decision, that also experiences real emotions and feelings about their experiences. I feel grateful to the author for creating this, and making it so digestible and real. I can imagine feeling so scared, alone, and overwhelmed in that situation, and this book normalizes each step of the experience.
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Regardless of your stance, this felt like an important, real, and honest take on the experience of deciding and having an abortion, and feels important to know and understand.
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5 FOR INFORMATION 1 FOR ART WORK
It may sound strange and even a little obvious to some, but it has become apparent to me that you do not have to be a good or even decent artist to write your own graphic novel. I have lost count of the ones I've read which have poor to below average drawing in them. Something I have never been able to understand is, if you cannot write text legibly then get someone who can, especially if you are calling yourself an artist and publishing a book that you want other
5 FOR INFORMATION 1 FOR ART WORK
It may sound strange and even a little obvious to some, but it has become apparent to me that you do not have to be a good or even decent artist to write your own graphic novel. I have lost count of the ones I've read which have poor to below average drawing in them. Something I have never been able to understand is, if you cannot write text legibly then get someone who can, especially if you are calling yourself an artist and publishing a book that you want others to read or buy.
Hayes addresses a serious enough and worthwhile subject in here, and there is a lot of really useful information that could help many people. She handles this sensitive subject with grace, warmth and compassion, but the art work is really not good at all, the lettering is like scrawling on a toilet cubicle. The author clearly had the best of intentions and this really succeeds in delivering hard facts but it really fails in terms of the art work.
...moreThis book gives the basic information about two types of abortion, medical and surgical, from the perspective of two women who underwent the treatment. It gives all the ins and outs of the procedures and for that this is a very useful book to read. No matter what your opinion on abortion is, it never hurts to know more about such a controversial subject before you make up
Good topic, and the medium of a comic can be very effective to make difficult subjects, such as abortion, more approachable.This book gives the basic information about two types of abortion, medical and surgical, from the perspective of two women who underwent the treatment. It gives all the ins and outs of the procedures and for that this is a very useful book to read. No matter what your opinion on abortion is, it never hurts to know more about such a controversial subject before you make up your mind. Although this book felt a bit blank or boring maybe, as if the story itself is not given a lot of information. It would work better as an information booklet than a story. And maybe that is exactly what the book tried to be.
...moreThis is a book about abortion.
This is a graphic about the FACTS and nothing but the facts put in an accessible format.
There is no judgement. There is no political agenda. There is no "you should or shouldn't." It is just an explanation of what happens during the process.
Just as the title says, this really is a "handbook for something hard." It lets you know what to expect, what kinds of things you should plan for if you decide to go through with it.
And something worth
Not going to sugar coat it.This is a book about abortion.
This is a graphic about the FACTS and nothing but the facts put in an accessible format.
There is no judgement. There is no political agenda. There is no "you should or shouldn't." It is just an explanation of what happens during the process.
Just as the title says, this really is a "handbook for something hard." It lets you know what to expect, what kinds of things you should plan for if you decide to go through with it.
And something worth noting: This book ultimately explains the process by going through the stories of two characters, "Mary and Lisa." Leah Hayes specifically says at one point: "Since this is a book about what it's like to go through an abortion, we won't get into how or why she got pregnant. For all intents and purposes... it doesn't really matter" and adds as a side note from the character Mary, "Yup! And it's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS." I'm glad that Leah pointed out that this has nothing to do with anything. We shouldn't be judging these characters. They're here to help us understand the facts.
This is a book everyone should read from both sides of the argument, of all races, colors, creed and genders. If nothing else, it'll make abortion less of a surreal concept and something more concrete.
...moreI'm not a huge fan of abortions. In fact I am straight up NOT A FAN.
BUT. I think the telling of these stories is worthwhile, and I know that appreciating that honesty, and striving for greater understanding, doesn't equal complicity. Essentially I seek to understand. And this is moving in that direction. But it's a little too dry and careful. In fact I just read a cartoon in The Nib a couple days ago that....I read this long enough ago, th Abortion comicssss. There should probably be more of you.
I'm not a huge fan of abortions. In fact I am straight up NOT A FAN.
BUT. I think the telling of these stories is worthwhile, and I know that appreciating that honesty, and striving for greater understanding, doesn't equal complicity. Essentially I seek to understand. And this is moving in that direction. But it's a little too dry and careful. In fact I just read a cartoon in The Nib a couple days ago that....I read this long enough ago, that the Nib cartoon has supplanted it in mind. https://thenib.com/nothing-feels-real...
I'm looking forward to reading that anthology. Striving for understanding. Yep.
...moreAlso, and I can't believe I'm writing this, but (view spoiler)[this book contains Shrek (hide spoiler)].
Anyways. Ha ha's aside, you can read this in under an hour and damn, you really should read it. One billion percent if you're about to have an abortion, and some percentage less (but not all that much) if you just want to be more informed and get a glimpse of the pr
This book is rather offensive... at one point the author spells "gazillion" with two "z's" and one "l." Couldn't believe my eyes.Also, and I can't believe I'm writing this, but (view spoiler)[this book contains Shrek (hide spoiler)].
Anyways. Ha ha's aside, you can read this in under an hour and damn, you really should read it. One billion percent if you're about to have an abortion, and some percentage less (but not all that much) if you just want to be more informed and get a glimpse of the process. "Something hard"... no kidding.
...moreI just dont see the point of this existing, in this form, really. One
Ehhhh. So i totally support the vision of this "graphic novel" (scare quotes justified, barely qualifies, see the later and hatier part of this review) : it provides good info on abortion, and contains seemingly heartfelt words of comfort. (Tone seemed almost condescending at times, tbh, though I'm pretty certain the author meant it to be reassuring and perhaps it was that way to appeal to a wide range of ages, which is coo'.)I just dont see the point of this existing, in this form, really. One who is gonna get an abortion is prob gonna hit up the internet or a clinic or a friend (in the books defense-all things it tells you to do) not be like "hm i wonder if i can find a graphic novel on the subject". Aaand, i dont like the illustrations. Which are sparse anyway, like there are pages of just text which is like, okay, why did you make this in graphic novel form, then? Not enough graphic. Doodling medicine bottles all over a page is blatantly filler and doesnt count. Step yo art up. Aand, the creating two fictional stories of people who got abortions to quickly rush thru after explaining all the stuff we all have access to by spending 10 seconds on google...half-assed effort there, for sure.
That said, I'd give it all of the stars and name my hypothetical nonexistant firstborn Not Funny Ha Ha if they gave this book out to high schoolers as part of their sex ed curriculum. Just a quick read about how its okay, its you choice, here's the medical info. You know, real revolutionaly shit by our puritanical standards. I'm sure i can expect this book to sweep the nations high schools when hell freezes over. Or that long plus an additional 100,000 years if a republican gets into office...ahem.
Anyway. Two stars, but you're doing the, uh, lords work here (is there a nonreligious version of this expression? My heathen-lefty-ass shouldnt be allowed to use jesusspeak but i cant think of a suitable replacement), author Leah Hayes.
...moreIt was a really informative book, aimed at women who are pregnant and having an abortion but don't know much about the proced
I saw a review of this several months ago and had been wanting to read it since. I only know one woman who has had an abortion, and we've never really discussed it. I actually don't know a lot about it as a surgical procedure -- only medical -- and that knowledge comes from the documentary Vessel, which I highly recommend to anyone who is reading this review or this book.It was a really informative book, aimed at women who are pregnant and having an abortion but don't know much about the procedure(s). I learned a lot from the book, which also does very well at reassuring its reader that the decision is *hers* alone. It suggests telling a trusted person what she is going through in order to have help and support, and encourages the reader to ask questions of their doctor rather than rely on the book or the Internet as a source of information. This seemed a little tedious to me as I was reading, but were I actually in a situation where I was about to have an abortion, the repeated, friendly reminders would probably be rather welcome.
I wished there had been a few more illustrations - there's a lot of written information - and that the tone was a little more upbeat in places. Both women look pretty somber throughout the book, and while I realize that there are heavy emotional components to this decision, I wished that at least one of them was given a story where she felt like she was making the right decision without being *too* tormented by it. Really, though, that's my only complaint.
...moreThe best audience for the book -- and the o
A better title would be "What to Expect When You Abort." With some preamble, mostly trying to remove a book about abortion from the realm of the political, it jumps right into the ways a medical (i.e. take pills) and surgical (go to a clinic) abortion works: what you're likely to have to do in terms of bureaucracy, what you may experience physically, how you initiate and bring closure to the physical process. It also touches on the emotional experience.The best audience for the book -- and the one the author envisions -- is the woman who has just decided to get a first-trimester abortion. Unfortunately, that woman is not likely to go to her library or Amazon.com looking for books. And even if she did, she could well be done with the abortion by the time the book arrived in the mail or, in my case, from the library recall.
So the big question this raised for me is, where would you put this book so it gets to its intended audience? Answer: the Internet. Then SEO the heck out of that page so it shows up on page 1 when someone types "abortion" into Google. Oh -- and make it free.
Squabbles: 1) Both women in the book look white. I think one may be intended to be "of color," but it's hard to tell. 2) Both women in the book are women. They're in their 20s. Don't call them "girls."
...moreThere are two issues I had with the book. While the art was strong, the text setting was rather crude, and the general design of the way the pages were laid out bother
A very concise and approachable book as to how most abortions work in the US. I thought it did a good job dealing with the topic in a very neutral, even-handed manner. It demystifies the abortion process, however, by trying so hard to be non-political and generalised, I do think some of the potential power of the narrative is lost.There are two issues I had with the book. While the art was strong, the text setting was rather crude, and the general design of the way the pages were laid out bothered me they were very off center and used a lot of negative space without good reason. While a book about abortion doesn't have to be pretty, I didn't understand the artistic reasons for the messy hand drawn font, or the large amounts of unused space.
Finally, I don't really understand the title! I borrowed the book from the library expecting something more personal or narrative. Not Funny Ha Ha is really just about the procedures and how people may feel. Valuable, but not exactly what I expected, and perhaps not as powerful as it could have been given the fact that the author chose to talk about abortion through the use of characters.
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